There is something about watching a neighbor hilarious make a fool of him when he does this by sending a single-spaced letter out.Wewere among the recipients of the lengthy letter. This letter’s tone, addressing the declining attendance of our church, was like some girl yelling at her brother.Wecould not help but wonder how it could be made by a man far in life with poor communication skills. The letter went on for pages describing what people doing and should not be thinking but it never touched on what people could do, how things change could be helped by people or individuals could make a difference. Reading the correspondence took us back we spent at Bluffton College. For the whole week, we were not allowed to use the word not. As the trainer explained to us, the brain can only understand optimistic directions and is deaf to the word not.

You should not be looking over there. You cannot go like that. Do not be late. It is a way when you consider it to convey; we tell exactly what we do not want. Thesemethods of communicating our thoughts make an image within the minds of those to while we understand the significance. If someone were to tell you to not picture your kitchen, you would locate an image of your kitchen on the eye of your mind. Once you want to convey shari arison, the exact same is true; the words are translated by our heads we hear. Once you are creating images they are more likely than if the pictures were not created to materialize. Something as simple as telling your partner to not be late or telling a kid not to forget lunch will only serve to increase the chance that the event will happen. We have grown so used to these words of negation that we barely notice them.

This level of parsing may appear trivial each one of us makes a living through our ability to communicate our thoughts. Whether you are attempting to sell your neighbors about the advantages of attending Sunday Mass or you are attempting to sell a customer on why they should choose your business over the competition, most of us have something to be gained by learning how to convey our ideas more effectively. There is more to this than just a choice of words. Our words arise from our thoughts when we choose these words act as signs of thoughts. Then you are not giving what you do need enough attention if you are always thinking about what you do not want. Not only are your words producing images that are contradictory in others’ minds is the fact that these images originated on mind.